From the moment a mother brings a child into the world, she is there for him. Day and night, whatever his needs are, she is always there.

She taught you to walk, to talk, to taste the good things in life. You were growing up so fast! She often said to herself, “I’ve lost my baby”… But deep down, she was happy to see you grow up and enjoyed discovering the person you were becoming.

On your first day of school, she dropped you off with your little lunch box and watched you disappear behind closed doors. What you didn’t know is that she spent the day in her car outside the school, hoping to catch a glimpse of you at recess. She wanted to make sure you were getting along with your classmates and making many new friends.

Over the years, your Mom teaches you to dance, to laugh, to love. She teaches you to love others and, most importantly, to love yourself. She tells you about what her life was like when she was your age. She explains to you how life was different in her day. And she tells you about those things that she didn’t get to experience and that she is happy you can do so.

As a teenager, you experience love and your Mom is there to support you. As you enter adulthood, you begin to go out and about on your own. Your Mom is always there. She waits for you in the evening, even when you come home late. You confide in her about your personal life and she listens, advises you, but never judges you.

One day, you introduce the love of your life to your Mom. When you tell her that you are going to get married, deep in her heart, your Mom knows that this is not the right person for you. But she respects you and lets you make your own way.

At the wedding, sitting in the front row, she cries, but she is there for you. All that matters is that she shares this important moment with you and supports you.

Later, you have your own children. Your Mom then becomes a grandmother. She is the best babysitter; she takes such good care of her grandchildren! Every Christmas, she is there to share the little family’s happiness. It is during these moments of celebration that you share your reality as a parent. She tells you about her life, her past Christmases. She talks about her own parents and grandparents. Through her stories and memories, you get to know your Mom. You will discover your Mom’s life all throughout your own.

One day, you tell your Mom that you have met someone new and that you will continue your life with her. From the first meeting, she knows that this time it’s the right one and that makes her happy. At your second wedding, still sitting in the front row, she laughs out loud. She beams at seeing her child so well accompanied.

Life goes on. The grandchildren grow up and in turn have their own children. This is when your mother discovers she is ill. You all have to come to terms with the fact that the holiday season will never be the same again. Then, slowly, life fades away and that’s how your Mom leaves you.

Even though she is no longer with you, you still remember her advice, her stories and her recipes. By cooking your Mom’s dishes, you keep her alive, close to you at all times.

Life goes on. Time passes slowly. Then, sickness hits you, too. In need of special care, you live in a hospital. It is there that other memories, deeper, more ingrained, come back to you. You remember her perfume. Her lipstick. Her nail polish. The sound of her heels on the floor. You remember your life with her.

As you near the end of your own life, and in your last moments, you will still be able to ask her: “Mom, come get me”. She will still be there for you.