Funeral prearrangements: mind your own business!
Danielle has always been a very structured person. As a child, her toys were always neatly arranged and her stuffed animals neatly arranged from smallest to largest on her shelves. Now in adulthood, every sphere of her life is meticulously organized.
From her pension fund to her summer vacations and the plowing of her driveway, nothing is just “left to chance”. For Danielle, planning for the future is essential to living fully in the present moment. Whatever unforeseen circumstances may arise, she already knows how to deal with them… except in the event of her death.
Still, Danielle already has a clear idea of how she wants her departure to be orchestrated. For her, cremation is non-negotiable. She wants her ashes to be placed in a biodegradable urn, then buried on the land of the family cottage. Danielle would like an apple tree to be planted there, so that her children and grandchildren can harvest the fruit after she’s gone.
Danielle loves a good wine; in fact, she brought back a few great bottles from her last trip to France, which she keeps safely stored. She likes to think that, when the time comes, her loved ones will be able to toast to her memory and recall the good times they spent with her over a fine meal.
She would like her daughter Joelle to act as executor of her will. Danielle has already discussed this with her and is confident that Joelle will carry out the task in the right spirit. However, despite the verbal agreement between her and her daughter, this wish has not been formalized.
Why does Danielle, who is so in control of her life, neglect to plan what comes next?
Your funeral prearrangements are your business
It’s only natural to be put off by anything to do with mortality and, in particular, our own demise. Nevertheless, death is a part of life, and it’s essential to plan for it in the same way as all the others. You wouldn’t leave it to other people to buy your house, sign your employment contract or plan your retirement. The same goes for your funeral prearrangements.
Funeral prearrangements determine how your body, your possessions and your last moments with family and friends will be managed after your departure. It’s in your best interest to take charge of them, so that they reflect the person you are today.
By planning your funeral prearrangements, you will be able to define how your departure will be commemorated by your loved ones. This includes technical aspects such as the method of disposal of the body, the burial site and the commemoration ceremony. You can also express your wishes regarding the ritual or spiritual elements of this event.
Since your prearrangements will influence how your last farewell will unfold, it’s a good idea to involve your loved ones in the planning process. This way, you can share your expectations with them, while giving them the opportunity to discuss how they wish to honor your memory.
Your funeral prearrangements are your own business. Take control!
The benefits of making your own funeral prearrangements
When preparing your funeral prearrangements, our consultant will discuss a number of important elements with you, including the method of disposal of the body and the burial site, services and goods, commemorative rituals and final wishes.
Your discussions with him or her will help structure your thoughts and ensure that all necessary aspects are considered when handling your prearrangements.
By planning your prearrangements with a professional from Crématorium Montréal, you benefit from our expertise while enjoying a great deal of flexibility in terms of personalizing your services.
In doing so, you also spare your loved ones an additional burden following your departure. Dealing with the death of a loved one is a difficult ordeal, both emotionally and logistically. By taking care of this planning now, you’re freeing them to concentrate on what’s important when the time comes.
Plan your funeral prearrangements with Crématorium Montréal
Crématorium Montréal offers funeral and cremation services in the greater Montreal area. With our expertise in planning funeral prearrangements and organizing cremation celebrations of life, we are able to assist bereaved families with their specific needs.
We are committed to providing the support you need to plan your grand departure or to celebrate the memory of your loved ones, taking into account your needs and budget, without ever sacrificing the quality of the service we offer.
Contact us to find out more about the services offered by Crématorium Montréal.